Alhamdulillah, there is a lovely new website dedicated to inspire Muslimahs towards the Niqab and please do check it out. They have some really inspirational stories and some entertaining interviews. And finally, let your friends and family know about this website and help spread the word. May Allah accept it from us! This is the link to the website:
www.niqabie.com
Assalam alaykum warahmatullah sis, how would you describe yourself in three words?
Walaykum salam warahmatullah, I hope you don't mind if I skip this question sis! It's a bit tough to describe myself... So sorry :(
So when did you start wearing the niqab?
I started wearing the Niqab when I was thirteen, Alhamdulillah. A lot of people think it's too young an age to start the Niqab, but I wouldn't have it any other way. :)
Why did you decide to wear the niqab?
My mother and older sisters were already wearing the Niqab before I started, so I guess it was only kind of natural for me to follow in their footsteps. I've always loved the Niqab and I knew that I had to wear it. Even before I started wearing it, I used to try on my mother's Niqab and see how it looked on me. In all honesty, nothing actually inspired me to wear the Niqab. I just felt that it was something I had to do. And no- I wasn't forced to wear the Niqab by anyone. Wearing the Niqab was entirely my choice and I'm immensely grateful for it, Alhamdulillah!I have been wearing the Niqab for many years now, and every time I go out wearing it, it makes me realize what a great blessing it is. I may have started wearing the Niqab for a few reasons, but over the years, I've come to realize that it's really a prestige to be emulating the Ummahatul Mu'mineen and the daughters of Prophet Muhammad Sallalahu Alaihi Wasallam in the way they dressed. It's really an honour!
How was it at first?
I'll be frank- the Niqab was pretty tough at first. I found it a little bit uncomfortable but when we do something for the Sake of Allah, we have to sacrifice something and although those first few outings with the Niqab were a little difficult, I've gotten used to it now and honestly, I've becomes extremely comfortable with it. It was a blissful kind of difficulty though. I know, some of you might wonder how, but it's kind of like fasting- it is difficult, but there's a beautiful sense of satisfaction and peace in fasting for the Sake of Allah. That's exactly how the Niqab is for me. The Niqab has becomes a part of me and I'd really feel incomplete if I had to go out without it.
Have you ever taken it off and if yes why?
I have- during visits to the doctor. Thankfully, I don't go to the doctors that often, so the times I've removed the Niqab are really rare. And most doctors in my country respect the Niqab, so they don't ask me to remove it all the time unless of course, it's really necessary. Alhamdulillah!
What did your family think of the niqab?
My family were very happy with my wearing the Niqab. Like I mentioned, my mother and older sisters were Niqabis before, so my family was really supportive of the Niqab. I have a few cousins and an aunty who still think I'm too young to be wearing the Niqab, but in general, I had no problems with my family about the Niqab :)
What do hubby and baby if applicable think of your niqab?
Hmm, I'm not married so I'm not entirely sure! But usually, husbands are meant to be supportive of his wife's wearing the Niqab. It's something he should actually be happy about because his wife is covering up her beauty so only those men that matter in her life can look at her. I know a lot of girls who worry that wearing the Niqab can make it difficult when looking for marriage proposals because not all men agree with the Niqab. Personally, I think that that by wearing the Niqab you are ensured that you get only the best and most suitable spouse In Sha Allah.
What's your motivation?
There's a lot, honestly :) For one, if you do something expecting to earn the Pleasure of Allah alone, He will reward you abundantly, so that's probably my greatest motivation. Besides, wearing the Niqab helps in making you come closer to Allah, because we have chosen to please Him above pleasing anyone else, including ourselves, so hopefully my Niqab would be the cause of my attaining closeness to Allah. In Sha Allah :) With so much of corruption in the world now, where women are being exploited shamelessly, it takes strength to go beyond the norm and turn away from the lure of the fashion world, but when you wear the Niqab, it becomes a lot easier to stick to pleasing Allah. People might say that the Niqab is just an outward thing, but Wallahi, it really helps in choosing right from wrong and re-connecting with Allah in a beautiful way.
How do you deal with drama or negativity towards the niqab?
At first, when I got any insults by people because of the Niqab, I used to get really hurt and offended. But now, I generally ignore all the hate and keep reminding myself that I'm wearing the Niqab for Allah, so nothing anyone says can affect me. After all, all that matters at the end of the day is Allah's Pleasure. The advise I give to Niqabis who have to endure taunts and insults because of their wearing the Niqab is to just ignore the haters and pray that Allah inspires their hearts to the beauty of modesty one day as well. How we deal with all the negativity can really reflect on our religion, so silence is the best response.
Funniest niqab memory
This is a tough one! There is no funny Niqab memory for me, unless you count slopping ice-cream all over my Niqab or trying to drink something while travelling and flopping the entire drink all over me. I wouldn't call that a funny Niqab memory, but it certainly would have been funny for the people to see an ice-cream or food-stained Niqabi! :D
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ReplyDeleteAlhamdulillah. I'm a Niqabi and have been for about three years. I love it. At times it's tough, but I have to remind myself that I do it for the sake and pleasure of Allah.
ReplyDeleteAsalamu alaikum,
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Take Care
Wa'alaykum salaam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.
DeleteAsslamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu,
ReplyDeleteI am a hijabi, but I truly admire sisters who do wear the niqab. It is so dignified, MashaAllah. May Allah continue to give my niqabi sisters strength and may He reward you greatly. ♥
Wa'alaykum salaam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu. Aameen to your Duaas Ukhty! :)
DeleteAssalamualaikum..
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to ask.. why do wear the niqab? I have nothing against people wearing it , in fact, am very supportive of it and I think that people who wear them are very beautiful. But I can't help but think you didn't really answer the question of why you started wearing it. It's just sounds like "i'm just following in the footsteps of my mom and sisters". But why do you follow them? Is it just tradition? If it's because you feel comfortable, why do you feel comfortable? I have friends who wear the niqab and I've asked them before but they just smiled shyly and looked at each other. In the end, they changed the topic and my question was never answered. And then I have other friends who don't wear the hijab altogether and when they get curious and asked me why some people wear the niqab (maybe because they don't feel comfortable asking the niqabis themselves) , I won't know how to answer. So do enlighten me =) jazakillah khair in advance
Wa'alaykum salaam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,
DeleteGood questions sis. For your first one regarding why I started wearing the Niqab. Like I mentioned, my mother and sisters were already wearing the Niqab, so it made my decision a lot more straightforward and easier. You may have noticed that sisters who come from families that do not observe the Hijab/Niqab are more often than not, non-Hijabis/Niqabis themselves or even if they do wear the Hijab/Niqab, the fact that no one else in the family does gives makes it a bit difficult for them. Our families play a huge part in our decisions and Alhamdulillah, because the women in my family were Niqabis, it only made me want to wear it all the more. At the end of the day, I wear my Niqab for Allah and not for my family but my family sure made my decision a lot easier. Alhamdulillah.
As for your second question- why I feel comfortable wearing the Niqab. Well the reason is simple Ukhty. The fact that I'm covering myself completely for the Sake of Allah is in itself a comforting thought. The other reason is that when I am covered, I know that my body is not for everyone to see. No man stares at my body and I know that when you observe modesty, you demand respect for yourself. I am comfortable being who I am, covered for the Sake of Allah, seeking His Pleasure alone. Alhamdulillah!
Wa anthum fa jazakamullah khair. Hope it cleared your doubts, In sha Allah :)
Assalamu aleikom,
ReplyDeleteNice article!:)
I was always wondered why im not meeting niqab sisters alone. im living in canada and i see niqabies at shopling centre with husband or at mosque... I wear hijab and really love going for walks to park and so on, im meeting there girls with hijab but never niqabes alone... so i was thinking if is not bc of safety? Im asking you abt your experiences walkingg around :)
Thank you
Asalam alaikum sister, mashallah your writing is so down to earth and open. I am setting up a blog as a niqabi mum living in Australia and would love to answer the kind of questions sister Atiqah put up. I remember those days when I wasn't wearing niqab and couldn't understand it. The niqab is so beyond the rules of ahkam. Its an experience. May Allah reward you sister NiqabLovers for your dedication to this blog. Ameen. Helped me alot alhamdulilah. :) Asalam alaikum Umm Musk
ReplyDeleteAs alamu alaykum. In my country many of the young girls who wear the niqab potray a bad picture because they usually wear it when going with their boyfriends or when they are going to forbidden places and dont wanna be seen then remove it when they get there. This know has an influence on our fathers who are now developing a negative attitude towards it. Ive always been inspired to wear the niqab and tried on this ramadhan and sadly my cousin and i have to hide to wear it and are forced to remove it when we get close to home which is very uncomfortable.
ReplyDeleteAs alamu alaykum. In my country many of the young girls who wear the niqab potray a bad picture because they usually wear it when going with their boyfriends or when they are going to forbidden places and dont wanna be seen then remove it when they get there. This know has an influence on our fathers who are now developing a negative attitude towards it. Ive always been inspired to wear the niqab and tried on this ramadhan and sadly my cousin and i have to hide to wear it and are forced to remove it when we get close to home which is very uncomfortable.
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